I am 15 days, a little more than two weeks, away from my RPAO and I realized that I need to make sure that I have started to get everything together that I am going to need, day of and once I get home. It’s crazy all the things you have to think of when you realize that you are going to be out of commission for a while:
1. Order my Durable Medical Equipment (shower chair, raised toilet seat, rental wheelchair) for delivery to my house when I am in the hospital — Check!
2. Order sundry medical aids for use at home after the surgery (pick-up grabber, foam cushion, sock put-on aide) — Check!
3. Take a look at my Suggested Pre-Op Purchases (which can be viewed under the drop-down titled “R U A HIpster?”) to see what I need to shop for in the next two weeks. — Check-ish (this is gonna take a while but it appears I have most of the stuff I need)
4. Line up people to take care of walking my dog / feeding my cat while I am in the hospital (and once I get home) – Check!
5. Make sure all Christmas gifts are purchased in plenty of time! This is a tough one because I am a terrible gift picker outer and now, I have less time to think about it. Ugh.
I think this is a good start. Once I started to write it all out it began to feel a little overwhelming, so I gave up for the night. The one good thing about the surgery is that it will be over and then there’s nothing I can do about it. I can’t make my hip become unbroken — it will be broken and I have to figure out a way to deal with it. Whatever I didn’t do will get done. Whatever plans I have will work themselves out. I truly believe that this will all come together in the end, and it will be fine, whether or not I plan it to an inch of its life.
Is it weird that I think that having a surgery that will break me into bits is having the effect of putting me together into a calmer, more reasoned person? Yep, think it is.